When you are sick of main course, sweet dessert could give you the excitement. The urge makes you eating dessert for a period of the time. But in the end, you still need main course. Dessert is not essential... When people decide to leave the dessert away, do they think of the feeling of the dessert? Been abandoned...
Showing posts with label disappointment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label disappointment. Show all posts
Jan 5, 2010
Sep 14, 2008
Sep 4, 2008
never judge a book by its cover
I just realize,
I am such a person, in his eyes. Perhaps, in eyes of those who don't know me....
Hahahaha....
Funny... and Irritating
Angel can be the most filthy, despicable feature
Satan can be as pure as white sheet
世人只肯相信眼前的假象
家人就不同。所以我找不到理由不爱他们耶。。。
Stand from another viewpoint, it's Satan's own fault.
It's the one projecting its own image to people.
Angel, such a cunning, filthy and despicable load, is happily spreading its "merry" and "blessing" to people who are willing to live in the fantasy
我曾经也深深相信。。。
再也不要叫我天使！
Jun 28, 2008
就只为了让我记住
上次去了那里，很可惜没见到该见的，却认识了不该认识的。
回来后，心里想着：“这么样我都会再去一次”。
是为了海阔天空-一生的梦想
也为了该见的就要见
可是，那目的竟悄悄地多了一个。。。
后来，因为不同人的意见，想法和观点，心情上一直不断遭受变化。。。
起伏不定
可是，想出国的想法越来越强烈；不一定要再去那里，哪里都好
让我远离这里
本来是有个机会的，结果，却又去不成了。
香港，怎么这么难去？
海洋公园、大屿山、黄大仙。。。
接着，又有一些不切实际需要别人更大配合度的机会降临
肯定的，更加不可能了
大环境的因素更让我寸步难行
等了又等，终于机会又来了！
好不容易！好不容易！
开心不已的定下了可以海阔天空的临时合约
满怀喜悦的大声分享
结果呢？
答案却是令人气愤难过的
不过
这也让我明白了解到
你真的不真实
虚拟，空洞
临时合约是需要束缚的
站着、看着、想着
突然觉得
空
竟然忘了我最初的目的
变成好像只为了赌一口气
心境不一样了！
我不想带着这种烂心情去！
犹豫不决的，终于还是放弃了履行合约的机会
是上天的旨意吗？
让我在犹豫时遇见了
或许真的还不是时候
一个人旅行
问了这么多人讯息，给了这么多空头支票
麻烦了好多朋友
真的对不住
老业
陈医师
雪莉gal
eileen gal
derrick
wen
。。。
还有我的家人
让你们费心了
不过没去成你们一定很开心的咯！
算了
我会期待澳洲之旅
如果计划还是赶不上变化
我不会再去顾虑了
到时
我会一个人旅行的
Nov 28, 2007
醉老闆連環撞 成大生、賣衣婦不治
udn.com 更新日期:2007/11/27 07:30 記者吳明良、蔡宗明、柯佩君、賈寶楠／連線報導
成大四年級學生鍾鼐駒及婦人史美芳，前晚在台南市裕豐街遭涂斌堃酒後駕車撞死；他們的家人昨天憤恨難消，強調處理完喪事後，一定要告到底。
鍾鼐駒（廿一歲）的父親鍾錦發說，涂斌堃（四十八歲）肇事後，一句道歉也沒有，令他非常不平，「一定告到底」。
史芳美（四十四歲）的弟弟表示，姊姊賣衣服幫忙家計，一對兒女，大的念大學、小的念高中，一個和樂家庭就被涂斌堃酒駕毀了，「我怎能不生氣」，等喪事辦完當然要追究刑責及索賠。
成大化工系大樓昨天一片哀傷，教職員和學生談到鍾鼐駒被撞慘死，神情都很哀戚；有的同學說「前幾天還聽鼐駒談準備考台大等多校研究所，相當有信心呢！」一名大二女生說「對鼐駒學長有印象，他對學弟妹很好，很熱心幫忙。」
瓦斯行老闆涂斌堃前晚酒駕在台南市裕豐街連撞十多輛汽機車，撞傷五人，其中成大學生鍾鼐駒、婦人史芳美分別於昨天凌晨不治。警方偵訊後依公共危險等罪嫌將涂移送法辦，檢察官聲請羈押，法官昨晚以五十萬元交保候傳。
涂斌堃前晚肇事後，自稱是議員弟弟，要與警員套交情。家人告訴他「你撞死人了！」涂斌堃斥責說「嘸啦，你亂講啦，我那有撞死人。」 (it is due to nervous? or he thought that money, power can make a difference?)
還說他只喝兩杯紅酒，車速只二、三十公里，為了閃車才撞車。當警方對他酒測高達零點六七毫克時，加上目擊者說他時速約一百公里；他才低聲認錯，表示肇事當時車子不聽使喚，煞不住車，會請求被害人原諒，知道自己闖了大禍。
警方根據目擊者吳姓女學生的說詞及現場採證，還原車禍經過。涂斌堃駕駛藍色凱迪拉克轎車沿裕豐街由南向北駛，先撞倒同向騎機車的史芳美及路邊轎車，再撞翻謝進興駕駛的轎車；迎面而來的機車騎士呂俊德被翻覆轎車撞上受輕傷。
涂斌堃繼續駕車前衝，追撞同向騎機車的鍾鼐駒，致鍾鼐駒撞上理髮店的柱子癱在騎樓；接著衝到高清建設大樓門前，撞毀電信箱及水泥座盆栽及路邊機車，卡在人行道上，安全氣囊爆開。涂斌堃毫髮無傷。
source: http://tw.news.yahoo.com/article/url/d/a/071127/2/owt1.html
other related news:
酒駕殺人無悔意 上進學子恩愛夫妻命誰償
extract: 肇事者涂斌撞人後不僅沒有悔意，還加速逃逸，警方以嚴重過失致死、公安危險等罪名移送法辦，檢方認為他有逃亡之虞向地院聲請羈押，未料法官諭令以五十萬元交保。(Why? he seems to have the suspicion of running away. Why does the judge has this kind of decision? I can't deny how upset I was to this decision but I wish there will be a fairer judgment on this case without any external distractions.)
source: http://tw.news.yahoo.com/article/url/d/a/071127/4/owex.html
成大生遭酒駕撞死 同學BBS開板大罵肇事者
extract: 至於肇事的涂姓男子家裡開瓦斯行，他以50萬元獲得交保，回家後不但沒有悔意，還將一切過錯歸究運氣不好。涂姓男子的母親說：「他就說是厄運啊，一個運躲不過，這樣啊。」
(no matter he did say so or misled by those Taiwan reporters, 我已经气得头昏、吐血了. Just my luck?! The law should give him a lesson.)
source: http://tw.news.yahoo.com/article/url/d/a/071127/17/oxtl.html
Everyday, those unexpectedly accidents happen non-stop at anytime, anywhere. We are not the God, we are not one of those heroes (check out CNN's Heroes) who can predict the future. Perhaps, one day, the unpredictable may happen on us, or on those whom we love to. We can't stop them, but we can do something better. Say "I love you" to those you love. You wouldn't know how powerful it is to those who are loving you too. If you couldn't, a hug works too. One day, when the unavoidable things happen, they or you may suffer for it; the hurt will never get heal. But, at least, you did tell the one you care about how much he/she means a lot to you. At least... he/she knows.
No matter where, when or who, drunk driving (酒駕) can't be forgiven. No matter what is the driver's reasons, work pressure, celebration, business, breakup or suicide, they shouldn't. There must be a way to solve their own problems, and they should avoid the driving when they are drunk. There is one sentence I got from an unknown drama series when I was young, but I still remember it: "要死,死远一点，不要害到别人." from a fierce auntie in that drama. It sounds cold-blooded, however, if we view it from the viewpoint of those victims, it makes sense. Why do you put the danger on others? Why don't you spare a mind to others whenever you gonna do something unsuitable to the circumstance? Just be considerate.
成大四年級學生鍾鼐駒及婦人史美芳，前晚在台南市裕豐街遭涂斌堃酒後駕車撞死；他們的家人昨天憤恨難消，強調處理完喪事後，一定要告到底。
鍾鼐駒（廿一歲）的父親鍾錦發說，涂斌堃（四十八歲）肇事後，一句道歉也沒有，令他非常不平，「一定告到底」。
史芳美（四十四歲）的弟弟表示，姊姊賣衣服幫忙家計，一對兒女，大的念大學、小的念高中，一個和樂家庭就被涂斌堃酒駕毀了，「我怎能不生氣」，等喪事辦完當然要追究刑責及索賠。
成大化工系大樓昨天一片哀傷，教職員和學生談到鍾鼐駒被撞慘死，神情都很哀戚；有的同學說「前幾天還聽鼐駒談準備考台大等多校研究所，相當有信心呢！」一名大二女生說「對鼐駒學長有印象，他對學弟妹很好，很熱心幫忙。」
瓦斯行老闆涂斌堃前晚酒駕在台南市裕豐街連撞十多輛汽機車，撞傷五人，其中成大學生鍾鼐駒、婦人史芳美分別於昨天凌晨不治。警方偵訊後依公共危險等罪嫌將涂移送法辦，檢察官聲請羈押，法官昨晚以五十萬元交保候傳。
涂斌堃前晚肇事後，自稱是議員弟弟，要與警員套交情。家人告訴他「你撞死人了！」涂斌堃斥責說「嘸啦，你亂講啦，我那有撞死人。」 (it is due to nervous? or he thought that money, power can make a difference?)
還說他只喝兩杯紅酒，車速只二、三十公里，為了閃車才撞車。當警方對他酒測高達零點六七毫克時，加上目擊者說他時速約一百公里；他才低聲認錯，表示肇事當時車子不聽使喚，煞不住車，會請求被害人原諒，知道自己闖了大禍。
警方根據目擊者吳姓女學生的說詞及現場採證，還原車禍經過。涂斌堃駕駛藍色凱迪拉克轎車沿裕豐街由南向北駛，先撞倒同向騎機車的史芳美及路邊轎車，再撞翻謝進興駕駛的轎車；迎面而來的機車騎士呂俊德被翻覆轎車撞上受輕傷。
涂斌堃繼續駕車前衝，追撞同向騎機車的鍾鼐駒，致鍾鼐駒撞上理髮店的柱子癱在騎樓；接著衝到高清建設大樓門前，撞毀電信箱及水泥座盆栽及路邊機車，卡在人行道上，安全氣囊爆開。涂斌堃毫髮無傷。
source: http://tw.news.yahoo.com/article/url/d/a/071127/2/owt1.html
other related news:
酒駕殺人無悔意 上進學子恩愛夫妻命誰償
extract: 肇事者涂斌撞人後不僅沒有悔意，還加速逃逸，警方以嚴重過失致死、公安危險等罪名移送法辦，檢方認為他有逃亡之虞向地院聲請羈押，未料法官諭令以五十萬元交保。(Why? he seems to have the suspicion of running away. Why does the judge has this kind of decision? I can't deny how upset I was to this decision but I wish there will be a fairer judgment on this case without any external distractions.)
source: http://tw.news.yahoo.com/article/url/d/a/071127/4/owex.html
成大生遭酒駕撞死 同學BBS開板大罵肇事者
extract: 至於肇事的涂姓男子家裡開瓦斯行，他以50萬元獲得交保，回家後不但沒有悔意，還將一切過錯歸究運氣不好。涂姓男子的母親說：「他就說是厄運啊，一個運躲不過，這樣啊。」
(no matter he did say so or misled by those Taiwan reporters, 我已经气得头昏、吐血了. Just my luck?! The law should give him a lesson.)
source: http://tw.news.yahoo.com/article/url/d/a/071127/17/oxtl.html
Everyday, those unexpectedly accidents happen non-stop at anytime, anywhere. We are not the God, we are not one of those heroes (check out CNN's Heroes) who can predict the future. Perhaps, one day, the unpredictable may happen on us, or on those whom we love to. We can't stop them, but we can do something better. Say "I love you" to those you love. You wouldn't know how powerful it is to those who are loving you too. If you couldn't, a hug works too. One day, when the unavoidable things happen, they or you may suffer for it; the hurt will never get heal. But, at least, you did tell the one you care about how much he/she means a lot to you. At least... he/she knows.
No matter where, when or who, drunk driving (酒駕) can't be forgiven. No matter what is the driver's reasons, work pressure, celebration, business, breakup or suicide, they shouldn't. There must be a way to solve their own problems, and they should avoid the driving when they are drunk. There is one sentence I got from an unknown drama series when I was young, but I still remember it: "要死,死远一点，不要害到别人." from a fierce auntie in that drama. It sounds cold-blooded, however, if we view it from the viewpoint of those victims, it makes sense. Why do you put the danger on others? Why don't you spare a mind to others whenever you gonna do something unsuitable to the circumstance? Just be considerate.
Oct 27, 2007
Why there is no DEATH sentence?
http://www.interpol.int/Public/Children/SexualAbuse/NationalLaws/csaSingapore.asp
I. Ages for legal purposes
Age of simple majority
Under Singapore law, the legal age of majority for entering into contract is twenty-one (21) years.
Age of consent for sexual activity
The legal age of consent for sexual activity is sixteen (16) years. http://www.lawnet.com.sg/freeaccess/women.htm
Age of consent for marriage
The legal age of consent for marriage is eighteen (18) for female and male persons.
Avoidance of marriages where either party is under minimum age for marriage. Section 9. A marriage solemnized in Singapore or elsewhere between persons either of whom is below the age of 18 years shall be void unless the solemnization of the marriage was authorised by a special marriage licence granted by the Minister under section 21. [26/80]
II.Rape
Section 375 of the Penal Code states
'A man is said to commit 'rape' who, except in the case hereinafter, has sexual intercourse with a woman under circumstances falling under any of the five following descriptions:
a) against her will;
b) without her consent;
c) with her consent, when her consent has been obtained by putting her in fear of death or hurt;
d) with her consent, when the man knows that he is not her husband, and her consent is given because she believes herself to be lawfully married or to whom she would consent;
e) with or without consent, when she is under fourteen (14) years of age.'
Section 376 determines the punishment and states
Subsection (1):
'Subject to subsection (2), whoever commits rape shall be punished with imprisonment for a term which may extend to twenty (20) years, and shall also be liable to fine or to caning.'
Subsection (2):
'Whoever, in order to commit or to facilitate the commission of an offence of rape against any woman -
a) voluntarily causes hurt to her or to any other person; or;
b) puts her in fear of death or hurt to herself or any other person,
-and whoever commits rape by having sexual intercourse with a woman under fourteen (14) years of age without her consent, shall be punished with imprisonment for a term of not less than eight (8) years and not more than twenty (20) years and shall also be punished with caning with not less than twelve (12) strokes.'
Article 90 defines consent and states
'A consent is not a consentas is intended by any section of this code -
a) if the consent is given by a person under fear of injury, or under a misconception of fact, and if the person doing the act knows, or has reason to believe, that the consent was given in consequence of such fear or misconception; or
b) if the consent is given by a person who, from unsoundness of mind or intoxication, is unable to understand the nature and the consequence of that to which he gives his consent; or
c) unless the contrary appears from the context, if the consent is given by a person who is under twelve (12) years of age.'
Why there is no DEATH sentence?
Comparing Terrorist and Rapist, which one is worse? I guess, majority of you will choose the previous. Why? Because He do a massacre? He hurts more people? He destroys the economy?
To me, both of them are totally bad (use vulgar word if you like to), especially the rapist. You hate Terrorist because he kills your brother, your sister, whoever you love, you care. He makes you heartbroken. He is cold-blooded as he kills people without any hesitation. However, in fact, rapist did the same thing and even worse. The rapist didn't take the Innocent's life, some may argue. But, He is worse, He "kills" the soul.
"Living painfully is much miserable than Die". Suicide is the optimal solution to the innocent who can't face the reality. Sometimes, people say, "hey, it is not the end of the world." Ya, they can take it so easily because they never go through it, they are NOT the victim. Thus, I don't like Singapore Drama Series in the past because it is fake, unrealistic especially when those actors, acting as a counsellor, encourage the victims to move on. It looks funny to me. HOW could they understand their pain? Thus, when I have watched the new drama series, 破茧而出 (po jian er chu)
The worst rapist is doing the evil in front of the Innocent's family. I read a newspapers when I was young. There was a news about a little girl of 12-year-old (she will be about 20+ if she didn't commit suicide) who was raped by those burglars who robbed her house in front of her family. I was sorry to her at that time as she had been hurt. BUT, now I know that her family (especially her mum) will suffer as painful as her or even more as they were watching her tragedy. It is totally crazy and awful. How could those bad eggs (use vulgar words if you wish) do this to a pitiful mother? No one, I bet, even immortal, can't stand the misery. (So, do you get an idea why people take revenge when Law can't help?)
People hate terrorist as WHAT he did is on the surface, is shown up to let anyone criticise. But, The destruction can be recovered, The feeling of hateful can be repay through revenge (no matter how beautiful words they said, in fact, they are taking revenge). A rapist, like a despicable rat hiding in the dirty, filthy drain, do the most shameful behavior as a human being (maybe they are not) to the innocent while He still pretends "innocent" among the crowd (Terrorist does so).
So, is Death sentence should be recommended? My stand is firm. I don't know yours and I am not interested too. Lastly, I think I am mercy enough as it is more humanity than letting them alive with no certain part of organ which has been suggested in a country before.
Karma,
you can't hide, you can't avoid; no matter how long it takes, the revenge will come eventually.
May 30, 2007
One day...
I am unhappy. In fact, I am very very very very very very very very very very very very sad.
If I don't know, I wouldn't so sad.
If I don't know, I still can deceive myself.
If I don't know, I can pretend I am blessed.
But now I know, so the feeling is really really really unbearably bad.
Can you tell me, Why I feel I was betrayed by you?
I wish you to tell me anything! No matter it is good or bad news. I wish you to do so like what I am doing...
If I don't know, I wouldn't so sad.
If I don't know, I still can deceive myself.
If I don't know, I can pretend I am blessed.
But now I know, so the feeling is really really really unbearably bad.
Can you tell me, Why I feel I was betrayed by you?
I wish you to tell me anything! No matter it is good or bad news. I wish you to do so like what I am doing...
May 4, 2007
vomit blood
i can't find a dream job. it is so difficult to finding a job now. haiz.. i am really upset. should i take that offer? i still can withdraw now, should i?
Mar 28, 2007
FAILED
really hate "it"! i can't believe that! the worst is i can't check the correct answers! arghhh, never mind, i will work hard! ONE DAY i will get my license!!!
Mar 26, 2007
the days
*Friday
i went back to hometown alone. i rejected friend's invitation of fetching her brother's car as i don't really like to wait for and trouble other.
it is horrible to take cab alone... i discourage female taking cab alone.
*Saturday
i woke up at 5.30am to prepare for Sucen's "traditional marriage ritual". after had had her wedding lunch at Segamat, i reached home around 5 or 6 plus. it is exhausting.
in the night, i think i was too tired. i did a stupid thing, i dropped my Babe Ryan's birthday cake!!! fortunately it didn't out of shape. however, it did destroy its completeness. i was so sorry at that moment. it could be avoided.
*Sunday
i returned Singapore with my dear 4th sister and her boyfriend. it was a hot day, i almost fainted. (*v*)
*Monday
the first day of the terrible week, i had my 2 tests in the morning; hopefully i can pass them. (*v*)
*irritating
recently irritated by some unavoidable issues. really hope to smack them... but it is not allowed. i wonder how could it happen in this way?! it is really funny to me.
*happy-ing
Nat is my "xiaomei" now hahaha, i am "dajie" in NUS. it is so interesting as i am xiao ken to my yanhong dajie yaa. hahaha..
i am pleased to know you and i would not regret at all.
i went back to hometown alone. i rejected friend's invitation of fetching her brother's car as i don't really like to wait for and trouble other.
it is horrible to take cab alone... i discourage female taking cab alone.
*Saturday
i woke up at 5.30am to prepare for Sucen's "traditional marriage ritual". after had had her wedding lunch at Segamat, i reached home around 5 or 6 plus. it is exhausting.
in the night, i think i was too tired. i did a stupid thing, i dropped my Babe Ryan's birthday cake!!! fortunately it didn't out of shape. however, it did destroy its completeness. i was so sorry at that moment. it could be avoided.
*Sunday
i returned Singapore with my dear 4th sister and her boyfriend. it was a hot day, i almost fainted. (*v*)
*Monday
the first day of the terrible week, i had my 2 tests in the morning; hopefully i can pass them. (*v*)
*irritating
recently irritated by some unavoidable issues. really hope to smack them... but it is not allowed. i wonder how could it happen in this way?! it is really funny to me.
*happy-ing
Nat is my "xiaomei" now hahaha, i am "dajie" in NUS. it is so interesting as i am xiao ken to my yanhong dajie yaa. hahaha..
i am pleased to know you and i would not regret at all.
Mar 4, 2007
bleahhh, unlucky
thanks for that urgent report, thanks for the clever boss, thanks for everything that screwed up it... ha-ha... Be positive, may It give me the sign telling me it is not the time? may Buddha bless me...
coughing coughing... see doctor? donnnn't want (i deserve it, lalala)
coughing coughing... see doctor? donnnn't want (i deserve it, lalala)
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